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How We Became Full-Time Slomads (& How You Can Too)

Last Updated: January 17, 2022 · Digital Nomad, Living Abroad, Slow Travel

Our journey of becoming full-time slomads — slow traveling digital nomads — began years before the slomad and digital nomad travel movement really picked up.

If you’ve ever thought about becoming a digital nomad then I hope our personal story can give you some insight as to how exactly our lifestyle of traveling and living abroad full-time became a reality.

In this guide, not only will I be sharing a behind-the-scenes look into our slow travel lifestyle, but I’ll also endeavor to give you practical information along the way so that, you too, can become a full-time slomad. If you have any questions, feel free to send me a DM on Instagram or write me an email!

 
Table of Contents show
Our Story: Becoming Full-Time Slomad Travelers
Traveling Abroad for Education
Deciding to Live & Stay Abroad
How We Slomad Travel – Practically
How Much It Costs to Travel Slowly
Planning Slomad Travel
Adapting to the Unfamiliar
Final Thoughts About Slowmad Travel

Our Story: Becoming Full-Time Slomad Travelers

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Slow traveling and living in Guatemala

First things first, what’s a ‘slomad’ and what’s the difference between a digital nomad and a slomad? Basically, a slomad is a digital nomad who travels slowly. If you aren’t familiar with slow travel or the digital nomad lifestyle, then check out those pages and guides!

So, let’s get into it!

To understand our life of travel now, I first must state that Paul and I began traveling together years ago in order to stay together.

We chose to travel and live abroad, in countries other than our own (USA and France), because we wanted to physically be together. (We’re about to enter into our 10-year anniversary!) After years of maintaining a long-distance relationship, we decided to keep traveling abroad.

Before I get ahead here… What’s important to know is that we weren’t that couple that said screw it to our 9-5s and decided to go on a world trip. Instead, traveling abroad was already a part of our relationship, and that’s mainly thanks to higher education.

Traveling Abroad for Education

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Living and studying in Groningen, Netherlands

When I was at university, where Paul and I met, I chose to do a year-long study abroad program. So for my junior year, I moved and lived for about 14 months in France. I completed a summer school in Chambéry and two semesters in Lyon, France.

After that, I returned home to the States for my final two semesters. During that time, I knew it wasn’t possible for Paul to move to the USA. We endured long-distance once again. So when it came time for me to graduate in May 2015, I began looking online in my desired career field (humanitarian aid) for jobs and graduate programs. I found a grad assistant position in Kathmandu, Nepal, and it just worked out that I would be moving there shortly after. Paul moved there with me, and we stayed there for about one year.

Keep in mind that, during this time, both Paul and I began dabbling in beginner online jobs to make money. We both began freelancing, translating, and learning how to build/grow affiliate blogs. We did whatever job online we could that matched our skills.

I terminated my grad program early, due to several reasons I won’t get into right now, and applied for another grad program in humanitarian aid that would take place in Europe. I chose my home university to be Groningen, Netherlands, but the program took me to live and study thereafter in Aix-en-Provence (France), Bogotá (Colombia), and finally in Brussels (Belgium) where I finished up my internship and wrote my master’s thesis.

Deciding to Live & Stay Abroad

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The first year (2018) we moved to a beach town on the west coast of Mexico

It wasn’t until I was free of my educational responsibilities that Paul and I decided to move abroad once again. However, this time, we had free reign for where to move to.

Our thought process here was rather simple. We needed a country that could ‘satisfy’ our requirements, which were:

  • Easy to move to visa-free (in other words, we could go just on a simple tourist visa)
  • A place we could slow down and stay for 6 months
  • Relatively easy for Yoda, our travel cat, to move to
  • Somewhere warm
  • Not in Europe, not in the USA

From that criteria, the results shot out Canada (but not warm), Mexico, and Panama.

So, it was in February of 2018 that we decided to move to Mexico as digital nomads for the first time. We touched down at the Puerto Vallarta airport on April 22nd, 2018 — on Earth Day.

Since then, we have lived in Mexico on and off for about three years in a…

  • Small beach town in Nayarit called San Pancho
  • Popular boho resort town in Quintana Roo you no doubt know as Tulum
  • Magic Town in the Chiapas Highlands called San Cristóbal de las Casas

We left Mexico about every 6 months (the time we could spend on our tourist visas) and returned a couple of weeks or months later to restart another 6 months in-country.

In between that time, we also bought a van in Mexico and road-tripped across Canada, visited our families and spent the summers in France and the USA (Tennessee/North Carolina), and have temporarily lived in both Lake Atitlán and Antigua in Guatemala.

How We Slomad Travel – Practically

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Living (and following that dream) temporarily in Tulum, Mexico

While most people will swoon over our full-time travel lifestyle, there are a lot of pros and cons of the digital nomad life. (Check out the guide in case you’re interested in this lifestyle!)

That said, below you’ll find how we actually pull this off practically. How much does it cost? How do we organize our travels? What’s the hardest part about traveling and living abroad?

How Much It Costs to Travel Slowly

It can be hard for our families and friends to understand our life of travel because they immediately default to the thinking that,

  1. we must be rich
  2. our travel lifestyle is like their vacations

The truth is, however, is that when you travel full-time it’s not like you are on vacation full-time. We still work and have jobs that require at least 40 hours per week, if not more, because we are building our own businesses and must rely on our own independence to bring that income in.

Secondly, we aren’t well off — and you don’t need to be in order to make this lifestyle a reality.

So how much does it really cost?

couple trekking and Slow Traveling in Annapurna Base Camp in Nepal

Trekking to Annapurna Base Camp in Nepal 

Paul and I typically spend about $1500-2000 USD per month total whenever we are living in countries such as Mexico or Guatemala. That’s for two people living comfortably in a popular beach town or in a modern tiny home on the slope of a volcano.

That breaks down to be about:

  • $500 average for rent (the most we pay is around $750, the lowest we’ve paid is around $350)
  • $500-750 on entertainment and food, including restaurants, cafes, activities, etc
  • $0-100 on transportation (we always walk or bicycle once at our destination)
  • $200-400 on groceries (about $50-100 per week, depending on where we live and our shopping habits — i.e. shopping at local produce markets or buying organic imports from supermarkets)
  • $0-100 misc — SIM cards and data packages for our phones, random purchases, internet upgrades, etc.

Plus, whatever it costs to do the actual traveling part (as in, get from destination A to destination B).

I always say that living and traveling abroad is actually cheaper than living at home.

We don’t have a car payment, mortgage, trash collection fees, HBO subscription — or whatever other fees many families in the USA/Europe incur these days because they live a more consumerist lifestyle than we do on the road. In fact, those costs all go into our piggybank for when we need to purchase flights (or other modes of transport).

Planning Slomad Travel

As for how we actually plan our travels, it’s pretty easy! We typically do it in this order.

  1. Think about what lifestyle we want (e.g. do we want to live somewhere tropical?), then we start planning to make that happen
  2. Research countries we want to go to (how long do we have visa-free in the French West Indies?)
  3. Start eyeballing flights or planning overland travel to get there
  4. Wait until our apartment contract is up, and that we are all set to move onward
  5. Go!

OK, so a lot happens in between those five steps. But that’s the overall gist. We plan, prepare, pack, and just go.

Applying for visas, going to medical check-ups, taking Yoda to the vet for his travel certificate, and all of that stuff on the “to-do” list isn’t really hard. You just have to make a list and check it off.

digital nomad girl working on laptop

When we plan for long-term travel or slow travel, we break down the steps we need to take. For example,

  • Logistics — How are we literally getting from point A to point B? Uber, bus or taxi to the airport, then rental car or bus to the new apartment? Driving overland?
  • Preparing — Do we have everything important we need packed and ready to go? Are all of our belongings in order? Are we leaving the place better than we found it? Are all our payments to the homeowner squared away and we’re all set to go?
  • Expectations — Have we researched our new destination? Did we find an apartment beforehand or are we finding one when we arrive? What’s our work/life balance going to be like? What’s there to do in the area?

It truly helps to compartmentalize everything, so you’re sure not to have missed out on an important step in the planning and preparing process of travel.

Adapting to the Unfamiliar

One of my favorite things about this full-time slomad travel lifestyle is actually getting to enter, again and again, into the unknown. That feeling of the unfamiliarity of, “Where am I?” and then getting to explore to find out is the BEST. I love it.

boy putting holi powder on foreigner in kathmandu nepal during the holi festival

While living in Nepal we had the amazing opportunity to celebrate Holi — the festival of color

Of course, culture shock can happen — especially when you’re new to this lifestyle and have never jumped countries before. I’ll write another guide about dealing with culture shock soon!

In any case, whether you love or hate this sensation of being outside your comfort zone, adapting to your new destination is essential.

Things that I’ve found that have helped and/or bring value to my experience abroad are:

  • Practicing the language with locals whenever possible
  • Shopping locally and getting to know your neighborhood
  • Observing daily life in the local plazas, parks, or markets
  • Smiling and chatting with strangers
  • Checking out/attending local events (i.e. live music events, meet-ups, etc)
  • Leaning into the local culture and learning about its history
  • Avoiding playing into the stereotype of my nationality or physique
  • Learning about the problems and issues the inhabitants of X face, and how I can contribute or lessen my impact

Those things are what help me adapt to my new destination.

Staying curious and open-minded will really help you integrate into your temporary home, make new friendships, and leave a positive vibe or impression behind when you move on.

Final Thoughts About Slowmad Travel

Slow traveling as a digital nomad, rather than country-hopping every couple of weeks, makes all the difference in both your lived experience and of the locals living there.

I think it’s especially important that, as digital nomads, we make extra effort to integrate into the communities we visit and live in. We aren’t just tourists who come and go each week. We have the opportunity to plant seeds of change and make a positive impact. Even if it’s small, like nano or micro small.

I hope by sharing a little more insight into our personal journey that you can feel inspired to potentially one day live and travel abroad, even if it’s for a short period!

Don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any questions!! I love hearing from you and chatting with you guys in my Instagram DMs and email.

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Add “diving with sea lions” to your adventure Add “diving with sea lions” to your adventure bucket list!! 

Literally a dream come true to be in the water with these playful pups 🦭✨🤿

Just watch your head and fingers, they like to nibble 😂 

📍 Los Islotes, Baja California Sur
🤿 w/ @thedivegurusmex 

Would you do this!?! Send to someone who would!🦭🥹

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Tips from a long-time nomad ⬇️✨ 💻 WORKIN Tips from a long-time nomad ⬇️✨

💻 WORKING ONLINE
While not all nomads/remote workers have online-specific jobs, it’s the easiest way to sustain an income for full-time or long-term travel. Here are some jobs you can do as a digital nomad!

• Blogging (This is what I do full-time!)
• Content Creation / Brand Sponsorship
• Virtual Assisting
• Social Media Management
• YouTube or Podcasting
• Graphic / Web Design
• Coding / Development
• Photography / Videography
• Freelance Writing (How I started)
• Marketing / Amazon FBA / Ecommerce

📍PICKING YOUR DIGITAL NOMAD DESTINATION
There are many countries out there offering digital nomad visas, but you don’t even need one to just travel as a tourist and stay in-country for 30, 60, 90, or 180 days. Nomads go everywhere as long as there’s a Wi-Fi connection, some countries you may consider are Portugal, Mexico, Costa Rica, Thailand, Vietnam, Croatia, Canada, Colombia, Indonesia, Brazil, and beyond! Even lesser-known places such as Namibia are starting to offer nomad visas to entice long-term travelers to visit.

🏡 FINDING HOUSING ABROAD
Read my blog post for the full guide on this, but basically, check local Facebook groups for renting local housing for extended stays and then use Airbnbs for shorter stays or to negotiate longer contracts with the owner. There are even more “nomad rental websites” these days to make finding accommodation even easier. Don’t overlook co-living/working spaces too like Selina where the digital nomad community tends to congregate.

💛 EXPLORING LOCALLY/RESPONSIBLY
As always, be mindful and respectful when you visit these communities. Many small towns are struggling with rapid growth and overdevelopment so be mindful of your choices of where you stay, how you spend your money, and who you support.

My best advice + detailed guides are all on the blog, free for you to use! Let me know if you have any questions about digital nomad life! 

Lastly, don’t overthink it. Moving countries isn’t as intimidating as you may think! It’s become second nature for us now after several years! 🐈‍⬛💃🌎✨
I’ve had the wonderful opportunity to discover t I’ve had the wonderful opportunity to discover this incredible country beyond the resorts and beaches, having lived temporarily in 5 out of the 32 Mexican states (Nayarit, Quintana Roo, Chiapas, Oaxaca, and now Baja California Sur) as a digital nomad who’s been slow traveling/living in and out of Mexico since 2018. 

There is so, so much cultural and natural beauty in Mexico — I wish more people could experience this country for themselves and not through the eyes of the media.

***Please visit Mexico as a digital nomad (or tourist in general) responsibly and mindfully. Stay local, eat local, drink local, shop local, support local. Leave No Trace and be conscious of your choices and impact!*** 

Here are the cities/towns we’ve slow traveled/lived in for extended stays.

• Oaxaca City — a colorful, historic open museum rich in indigenous culture and gastronomy 
• San Cristóbal de las Casas — an endearing pueblo mágico in the Chiapas Highlands
• La Paz — the capital city of BCS teeming with marine life, diving, fish tacos, and desert vibes
• San Pancho — an eco-conscious town in Nayarit famous for its sunsets and community
• Tulum — no introduction needed (and I wouldn’t go back here as a nomad due to overdevelopment)

Other great cities/towns/destinations for digital nomads are:

• Guadalajara (state of Jalisco)
• Santiago de Querétaro (state of Querétaro)
• San Miguel de Allende or Guanajuato City (state of Guanajuato)
• Playa del Carmen (state of Quintana Roo)
• Valladolid or Mérida (state of Yucatán)
• México City/CDMX (state of México)
• Sayulita (state of Nayarit)
• Puerto Vallarta (state of Jalisco)
• Puerto Escondido (state of Oaxaca)

I’d love to know what you think about Mexico and where you’ve been in the comments! 🇲🇽💛

And for the detailed guide of 13 places to live/visit, read my blog @bucketlistbri .com (just type in “places to live mexico” in the quick search bar if you can’t find the post under my “Mexico” category).

#mexicomagico #digitalnomad #visitmexico #livingabroad #fulltimetravel #mexicotravel #mexicodestinations #nomadadigital #nomada #mexicomaravilloso #slowtravelling #mindfultravel
PSA: Your anxiety, problems or (bad) habits will f PSA: Your anxiety, problems or (bad) habits will follow you around the world until you face them no matter how much you travel or move countries 🙃 

I know I’m not the only one that feels restless at times and idolizes moving to a new region/country/continent to shake my feelings of anxiety or self-doubt or fear! (Also, I tend to think about moving to another country even when I just moved to a new one 😅)

I know because I have lived abroad for 8+ years. I used to try to drown out my icky feelings and past traumas with lots of alcohol but now I carry them with me like I do my mismatched socks — they add to the quirkiness and remind me I don’t have to be, and am not, perfect. 

And that life is more interesting that way, anyway. 

Anddd that most importantly, whenever I get lost, I can and will be found again — I just may look and think differently after new adventures but I am still loved and never lost forever 🧦 ✨💛 

In sum, whether you travel full-time or not, take care of yourself ✨💛

#nomadness #nomadlife #lifeofadventure #livingabroad #fulltimetravel #offbeattravel #remoteworklife #homeawayfromhome #slowtravelstories #mentalhealthawarness
The 4 core ingredients to a recharged Bri: 💛 P The 4 core ingredients to a recharged Bri:

💛 Paul
😻 Yoda
🌍 Traveling & adventuring
👩🏼‍💻 Blogging & writing

Among other things like nature, photography, reading, animals, journaling, art, playing Zelda/games, dancing/music, culture/languages, enjoying rly good food and drinks! 😋 

What about you? What recharges you?? 

#rechargemysoul #blogging #adventures #writing #soulfulliving #mindfulliving #mindfultravel #nomadcouple #creativeliving
1 WEEK COSTA RICA ITINERARY👇🦋✨ 🌋 ARENA 1 WEEK COSTA RICA ITINERARY👇🦋✨

🌋 ARENAL // LA FORTUNA (2 days)
- Hike in the Arenal Volcano National Park
- Indulge in a local chocolate/coffee tour (s/o to @northfieldscafe)
- Go on a wildlife safari float (s/o to Raúl for pura vida vibes!)
- Lounge in natural hot springs (highly recommend the budget-friendly Relax Termalitas in Fortuna)
- Visit La Fortuna waterfall
- Check out the Butterfly Conservatory

🦥 QUEPOS // MANUEL ANTONIO (2-3 days)
- Take a guided or DIY tour of Manuel Antonio National Park
- Chill out on the Espadilla beach
- Explore the cute towns
- Watch for wildlife in the trees!

🌿 MONTEVERDE // SANTA ELENA (2 days)
- Visit/hike in the Monteverde Cloud Forest
- Go ziplining
- Birdwatching on a canopy tour
- Monteverde coffee tour
- Do a nature night walk

My sister and I surprised our mom with this bucket list trip on her birthday, and we had a blast! 🥹

Send this itinerary to someone you know who has always wanted to go to Costa Rica 🦋💛✨🌿🦜🐒

#costarica #bucketlisttrip #puravida #costaricaitinerary #lafortuna #manuelantonio #monteverde #ecotourism
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